The iconic Joe Bruin statue on the UCLA campus. Photo courtesy of pixels.com
MY REFLECTIONS OF MY THREE AND A HALF DECADES (and counting) AS A MEMBER OF BRUIN NATION
I saw on social media that the fall quarter has started at what is considered the nation’s #1 public university for seven straight years (and counting!).
Which reminded me of this analogy that I feel is a perfect one as far as what UCLA has meant to me for the past thirty-five years…
Imagine the nerdiest, dweebiest, dorkiest kid in the 1950s asking Marilyn Monroe to be his girlfriend.
Or the nerdiest, dweebiest, dorkiest kid of the past twenty years asking Beyonce to dump Jay-Z and marry him.
Or the nerdiest, dweebiest, dorkiest kid in school, a kid who would be considered a nerd even among the cast of “Revenge of the Nerds”, asking the head cheerleader or homecoming queen to go out with him.
And Marilyn, Beyonce, the head cheerleader and the homecoming queen all saying yes!
That is what being a part of the UCLA community and a member of Bruin Nation has meant to me, as that institution of higher learning in Westwood had been my “dream school” for as long as I could remember.
Saturday, February 13, 1988 will be forever imprinted into my gray matter,
Because that was the day I received the big, thick manila envelope with the lead letter – among a lot of other things – that said “CONGRATULATIONS! You have been admitted to UCLA’s College of Letters and Science…” while watching The Buddy Holly Story on TV,
Which was a surprising shock as I was expecting to and was all set to transfer to Cal State Northridge after spending my first few undergraduate years at Santa Monica College.
I remember jumping around with the acceptance letter in my hand, humming the fight song as I didn’t know the words to “Sons of Westwood” as of yet, then calling my grandmother to read the acceptance letter to her; my mother was there visiting for the weekend, so of course my grandma told her and everyone was very happy over my accomplishment.
I had a jacket just like this during the 1990s, which I wore all the time; I wish I still had it. Photo courtesy of offerup.com
Six months later I began taking classes there as part of the Academic Advancement Program’s Transfer Summer Program, where new students coming to UCLA from other colleges took two courses, including a writing course, to get ready for the rigors of the quarter system in a sort of “Spring Training”.
I did pretty well in those six weeks of classes that August and early September, getting an A- in my writing class and a B in a Political Science class, before I officially began life in the UCLA Bruin Marching Band a week later as I joined their band camp and official became a Bruin Band member, making friends that (CLICHE ALERT!) I’m still friends with today.
Three years of classes, band trips, studying, and other experiences followed, which culminated in what I consider one of my biggest life achievements,
Getting my bachelor’s degree in history, which I was quite proud of due to being told that only 30% of blacks and Latinos – at least at that time – earned an undergraduate degree from UCLA.
And doing well enough in my classes – mostly Bs – to be able to get into graduate school.
I’ve always told people that there are two things that, while I won’t call them regrets, I wish I would have done while a student in Westwood:
- Taken more Political Science classes as I’ve always liked to hear and participate in discussions and debates, and…
- Tried out for the Bruin baseball team; I would have certainly been cut because I didn’t have a good throwing arm – at all – but at least I could have said that I tried, just like a high school classmate of mine who tried out for the women’s volleyball team at Cal Berkeley and didn’t make it; I admired her for going for it and told her so at a class reunion.
After my student days, the friends I made in the marching band got me to join the UCLA Alumni Band, which is the perfect way to stay involved with the school post-graduation if you play a band, woodwind, or a percussion instrument as we play at many UCLA events, including the football games, the women’s gymnastics meets, and many other Bruin soirees on a yearly and regular basis.
A main factor in my joining the Alumni Band was to be able to continue to go to football games and other UCLA sporting events free after paying a nominal dues fee at the beginning of the school year.
But over the thirty-plus years I’ve been involved with that group, it’s evolved into more than that as I’ve been able to stay connected to my alma mater through that organization, which was honored in being named the UCLA Alumni Network of the Year in 2022.
I can spout a lot more odes to this collegiate alma mater of mine and tell a lot more stories about my days as an undergraduate and alum.
But that would probably take too long, so besides stating the obvious in my unbelief that it has been thirty-five years since I first matriculated at the University of California, Los Angeles and became a Bruin,
I’ll close this post by stating this:
Joe DiMaggio – you know, the former baseball legend of the 56-game hitting streak who married Marilyn Monroe after his playing days were done and became Mr. Coffee after that,
Famously said, “I thank the Good Lord for making me a (New York) Yankee.”
Well, with regards to being a UCLA alum and a longtime member of Bruin Nation, I say this…
“I thank the Good Lord, and will be forever grateful to him, for making me a UCLA Bruin.”
I think that sums everything up pretty well.
Royce Hall, the centerpiece of UCLA; I still find myself in awe every time I pass it. Photo courtesy of fineartamerica.com